Saturday, August 22, 2015

7 - Break-up

"What should we do when we broke up with our Partner?"



It's painful to say goodbye to someone that you don't want to let go. But it's more painful to ask someone to stay if you know they really want to go. -Unknown



People nowadays, look at love, look at relationships like its a trash. Because for them, relationship doesn't do good for them. They think this way because of what they have experienced before. They hid their selves from hurt because they want to deny that they haven't still move on.

But what they didn't know is someone or something will come to save them. They just put up their wall around their hearts, so that no one would dare hurt them again.






People are wrong about thinking that way. They shut their minds from what happened to them. They didn't try to think that after the break-up, everything will be okay. Someone will come better than the past. But no, they just stick to what their minds are thinking.


That's one of the mistake of people. They're not mature enough to think of what better future they'll have if they just move on and let their selves experience everything.





I want everyone to be open-minded enough. I want to develop their maturity and not shut their selves up. We, people, should let go of the things that make our life hard. Cause even I felt that recently. What good will happen if I shut myself up from the things that I should experience? Yes, I might regret, but I know that everything happens for a reason. I thought that we might not meant to be for now, maybe in the future or maybe someone will come.


We might not know. So let us think positive and don't trap ourselves in a cage. Let ourselves go and explore the goodness and the badness of this world that can offer. We all have to go through the pain and happiness because if you can't even experience this then, you can't say you have fulfilled your life. Be mature and think of a better future.




8 comments:

  1. Sam, there are a lot of grammatical errors in this blog post. Also, you remember our lesson in GRAMCOM about capitalization, right? You shouldn't capitalize the word "Partner" because it is a common noun, you should only capitalize proper nouns.

    Lastly, you may use a hyphen for "breakup," but it is highly recommended that you should just use the word "breakup" instead of "break-up." Like I said before, it is a great post, but you should really recheck your blog posts, as you sometimes get confused when using "you're" and "your."

    Please refer to this link about the word "breakup" http://grammarist.com/spelling/break-up-vs-breakup/

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  2. I'll be honest, I thought you would write about: blood spilling and hardcore amazonian traditions after a break-up. Immediately followed by a quick rebound. But hey, that's just me.

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    1. the sad truth about assuming ahhaha just kidding nathan :)

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  3. That's very sad, Sam. But don't worry, if someone left, someone better will come. Kudos to you!

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