Adults are not approve of teenagers having relationships. Why? Because it might cause them to rebel, have low grades and get pregnant. But what they didn’t know is, it can be beneficial. Early relationships can be beneficial than destructive because teenagers can learn things on their own, they can develop their maturity and they can be independent to survive a long ride in life.
The first reason why early relationships can be
beneficial to teenagers is because they can learn things on their own. They can
learn how a relationship works. How to deal with people with different
personalities and attitudes. So that in the future, they’ll be able to handle
their future relationships.
Teenagers can develop their maturity when they experience relationships. When we, people, enter in a relationship, not all people are the same. They can develop their maturity from the different experiences they have and from the different people they have met. In these experiences, they can be able to widen their minds and be mature enough to think.
Early relationships can be the first hand experience
on being independent. Teenagers can be independent, if the parents will just be
open-minded and let their child experience everything. But of course, the
parents should guide them thoroughly. It’s like a ticket on being able to
decide on your own, do things you like but not will go ahead from your
limitations and experience everything.
Early relationships are not a destruction. Maybe for
some it might be, but those teenagers are not guided by their parents. Its
either their parents are strict or because they’re parents are not there so
they started to rebel. Early relationships can be beneficial if only the
parents are hands on to their children. Everything will fall into the parents so
it’s good if they will be open-minded and guide their children until then.
My mother often tells me that there is a time for everything. So in my own humble opinion, there is no such thing as 'early' relationships. Just relationships. The idea that made the so called 'early' relationships be called as such, is the fact that a lot of parents limit their children's freedom with the mindset that its for their own sake. Honestly, I say that whether a relationship is good or bad depends largely on the couple themselves.
ReplyDeleteThank you for sharing that. But it always depends on the person's preference. :)
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