"SINGLE and IN A RELATIONSHIP are just titles. Your heart determines your true relationship status." -Unknown
Single or In a relationship, does it even matter? What is the effect whether you're single or not? Does it give you anything good or what? Which mostly people want to choose?
Unfortunately, yes. To most people, being single or in a relationship really does matter. If one person knew that you're single, oh hell yeah, ready your brain for some blown up questions. They'll likely ask "why are you single?", "did you just broke up with him?", "what happen?" and many more. Whether you're single or not, if a person knew about it, I bet you'll give your whole time just to answer and tell your story.
But my main point here is what do people mostly choose? Single or In a relationship? I ask some of my friends and most of them chose single. Their reasons are because its too early for it and you're free from everything but the downside is there's no one who'll be their for you when you're sad, there's no one who'll be trying to be cute just to make you smile or laugh, etc.
For me, I'm in between the two. I have my reasons why. Single, just like what everybody say, because you have your FREEDOM. You can do everything and anything you want without anyone getting mad at you. No hardships, no crying moments just jealousy and envy for others. While, in a relationship, you'll have someone to hold on and depend to. You'll be at your best and you'll even have your inspiration.
It just depends on the person, whether this side will make him happy or this side. Every person will choose the side which will make him happy. Well, if he chose to be a martyr then, the hell be with him. Just a simple advice, ask for some guidance and let your heart and mind unite as one. Think about it.
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